Oh, the possibilities!
Imagine the sense of freedom you'll have from the limitations you'd previously put on yourself. You'll feel like a huge weight has been lifted off of your shoulders and you'll stop taking things so seriously. You'll give off a completely different vibe - a confident, attractive and playful one. You will be open to new people and experiences and all kinds of interesting opportunities will start coming your way.
Think of all the fun you'll have and the strength and power you'll feel.
But right now...
You feel kind of lonely, bored and sad. You don't want to be jealous of your friends who are wives and mothers, because you love them and are truly happy for them, but you wish you were a wife and/or mother too. You're on dating apps and websites and are going out on dates but you're not finding anyone you really click with. Maybe you have given up on dating altogether and have resigned yourself to permanent single status.
I hear you
You've probably tried reading self-help books and magazine articles about confidence and dating. You've "liked" motivational quotes on social media about how awesome single, independent women are. You've confided in family and friends about how you're feeling and sought their advice. Some of these strategies may have helped temporarily, but unfortunately, nothing has seemed to make a lasting change in regards to how you feel about being single and about yourself.
I know how hopeless and frustrating it feels to turn to books, videos and other people's advice and have none of it lead to sustainable changes at your core. I know this because I myself have struggled with my confidence and with being single over the years and I've tried all of these things.
I may have felt and acted differently temporarily, but I didn't feel a real, sustainable change on the inside. What kept eluding me was HOW to actually become more confident and HOW to enjoy the single life.
It wasn't until I began having coaching sessions that I actually felt something happening. The pieces started to fall into place and I gained an understanding of why I had been acting certain ways.
This enabled me to figure out how to start making changes. There are many things that have changed for me, but one example is my feeling about meeting new people. Because I have always been shy, I tended to dread meeting new people. I found it stressful and I would avoid going places alone. Now, however, I really enjoy the opportunity to make new connections and I'm not afraid to step out on my own.
You see, the reason why my previous strategies didn't work is because nobody could tell me what I needed to do for me other than me. I just needed help accessing the answers and that's what coaching does.
Every session will provide a pause from your busy life and allow you to take some time for yourself. Yes, these sessions will be all about YOU (and seriously, when is it ever all about you?!).
This will be a safe space to explore, dream and just throw ideas out there without being judged.
You'll have the opportunity to listen to your inner voice which can be so hard to hear in the craziness of our lives these days. Best of all, this will all be done from the comfort of your home...or wherever else is comfortable to you and has access to phone or Skype. That means we can work together even if we are continents apart...gotta love technology!
We all have blind spots about ourselves and our lives. As your coach, I will help you bring these blind spots into vision. This will allow you to see possibilities and solutions more quickly than you could on your own.
If you're ready to stop feeling like something is wrong with you just because you're single and you want to start enjoying your life, schedule your complimentary session with me. You will get a taste of coaching and we'll see if we make a good team!